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Revenge and how hurting another person hurts you more

Sweet sweet revenge When someone has wronged you you become emotionally charged almost instantaneously and feel whatever action you now take is justified.  You  feel some sort of entitlement and want to get them back. Y ou justify it as fair play considering the events that preceded that moment.  You  want that person to hurt the same way you're hurting sometimes maybe even more. But revenge is never as sweet as it seems. From a distance getting even seems enticing because it feels like the right course of action. All it takes is one little push until you do something inexplicable. Something you can't ever take back. I had to learn this the hard way.   I recently went through something in my life where I felt like taking revenge. The person who wronged me was someone I considered near and dear. They weren't being hurtful on purpose, They weren't out to get me but  what they did left me annoyed, angry, even losing respect for them. I was distraught by w...